The Three Great Loves: The Rules of Attraction xviii

Saturday, February 09, 2008

Current mood: animated Category: Writing and Poetry Love. There was a poem I once read about Love and Infatuation. I don't remember where I put it but I know I read it sometime in high school which was at least 5 years ago. It said Love was never Jealous. Love was never blind. Love was Trust. Love was Unconditional. Based on those truths, I was on a search for love. The love that's nearly impossible to find. One that's worth the risk of being hurt as many times as it takes to find it. I would drop everything to search for it. I would stop seeing other girls. I would leave my house. I would drop all my matierial possetions for it. I would move out of my house. I would DO what ever the fuck it takes to get it. I found it in someone else last week. My 2nd great love. In a show I used to watch (Sex in the City) the journalist wrote that in life we find 3 great loves. I'm just hoping she wasn't my 3rd yet.

Cock Blockers (CB) : The Rules of Attraction xix

Date: Feb 8, 2008 2:42 PM

From: PUA Edge
Subject: Yo

Body:

Hey Jojo,

It's up to you. Personally, I want to delete him too. On Facebook, Mixi, and Myspace.

But the reality is that I don't wanna deal with him getting butt hurt. I'd rather just have him not know that I don't like him, and just not invite him to chill. He'll get the picture someday.

If I don't invite him to hang out and chill, then he doesn't get to hit on my girls. So for right now it works out, but what sucks is that on facebook I can't write anything personal or anything about hanging out cause he'll know.

There's a lot of other guys that noticed about Rich too, from other organizations. I think smart thing to do is just keep him on myspace, but just don't talk to him or message him anymore. And don't hang out as much or at all if you can. You're still friends with Brian and some of Rich's friends so it's probably best to just not make him an issue.

If he makes you angry enough, then you can call him out in front of everyone and THEN you can delete him on myspace.

Cause the thing I can see happening is you delete Rich he'll just use your old bulletins about deleting "friends" against you.

So if people see you call him out or get mad at what he does, (And people know what he does already from what I know), then people will understand if you delete him.

He doesn't have any real close friends in my group, he just pretends to know us. He might be ok with Naoko, but he pretty much tries too hard I think to be cool with our group.

And Japanese people don't really like his peacocking style with anime.... it's nerdy to them.

I'm not gonna worry about him cause it's not worth it. If he hits on my girls then yeah I'll get pissed and delete him.

For now though he's been "quiet" and I already warned all the guys in my group about him so I'm just gonna lay back and chill.

But yeah man, a lot of people know he's just a wanna be player/pua. Even girls notice it.

Since he's not affecting my game too much yet I don't really care anymore.

I Lied to Every Girl I’ve Met: The Rules of Attraction xvii

Saturday, February 09, 2008

I Lied to Every Girl I’ve Met: The Rules of Attraction XVI Current mood: betrayed Category: Jobs, Work, Careers I lied to Darlene. I lied to Kate. I lied to EVERY girl I've ever met. But if you've previously read my other blog on lying, then you'll know what I mean. I didn't really say the lie. I did it. It was my actions. I would never admit to the girl how much I would like her. I would always seem to run away in hopes that the girls would chase me. I wouldn't give a fuck. This is the only lie I ever told. The only lie I will ever commit. I will continue to lie until "a" girl proves me wrong. The lie I made was that I would never EVER let the girl know how much I liked her. Cause as soon as you do... She'll stop liking you. This is nessassary in order to preserve our species. In order for a male to replicate. In order for love to reciprocate into something more. Something meaningfull. Somehting you can call your wife. The problem was never the lie. It was when I told too much truth... 6:50 AM 1 Comments 1 Kudos

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haha, if you call that a lie. It's as much a lie as you "lying" every time you go down on a girl-- It's all for a greater purpose and future pay-off, my man.

And, actually, many men don't do that lie and our species is doing just fine; many men flat-out tell girls they like them.

...But, many men are suckers and are forced into a "numbers game" of attraction though.

Posted by Alex on Saturday, February 09, 2008 - 6:11 PM

Girlfriend Commitment: The Rules of Attraction xvi

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

(Current mood: enlightened Category: Romance and Relationship) I get this question all the time from people: If you know so much about women then where's the girlfriend? I'll tell you where she is... Non-exsistant because there's no girl good enough to fill that position yet! You see. I study "what women want" and if I had a girlfriend and still kept continuing my study. I'd be cheating on her every time I talked to a women (everyday). If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't be studying "what women want," I'd be studying what "she wanted." Trying to find out what made "her" happy. Not other "skanks." Honestly. I'm not going to lie to you. I'm going to keep studying what women want and sleeping with as many women as I want until I find a "special" girl that can satisfy all my desires. When your in a relationship your suppose to be commited. Your suppose to not even think about other women. You wouldn't even fucking put yourself in the possition to attract other women. Which is why you wouldn't even go to clubs or maybe even bars with your friends. Because people should be smart enough to know what "cheating" is. My girlfriend is going to be happy because I know what I want. She'll know what she wants. I myself will know EXACTLY what she wants because I'll be studying her every desire to do my best to fullfill her boyfriend needs. I won't just be a boyfriend to her, I'll be a "perfect" boyfriend to her. Not even thinking about other women. Honestly, other women won't even cross my mind. Just because I can get with other women, doesn't mean I will or would. (Man what a lucky girl lol). So women and men out there. What is your idea on commitment? And do you truely know how commited your boyfriend/girlfreind is? 9:58 AM 1 Comments 2 Kudos Darlene Joanne .....................i like this blog. because it makes me realize alot of things that i should've been concentrating on.. Posted by Darlene Joanne on Wednesday, January 30, 2008 - 6:03 PM

Private : The Rules of Attraction xiv + xv (A Choice From the Darkside)

Monday, January 28, 2008

Private : The Rules of Attraction xiv Current mood: amorous Category: Music Chains of our memories binds us together On a starlight evening full of bitterness We leave tonight as if it's our last Forgeting the things we did in the past I'd tell you not to forget me but it wouldn't make sense At least tonight we could ride the wind like a second chance Your eyes cut me like a diamond blade as your heart bruises me like a debt that's unpaid. It's our only night we can be together. Until you go back to being his forever. I comfort you with one last kiss until being back into an ingrorant bliss I let you go to him because I know you My hearts desire sometime I'll show you Chorus I'll crush you with the weight of my love and then cut you with the sweetest kisses (The chorus needs to be edited... it's too sour) ________________________________________ Tuesday, January 29, 2008 A Choice From the Darkside : The Rules of Attraction xv Current mood: apathetic Category: Romance and Relationships My last "private" blog entree was about a girl. She already knows who she is. It's private because I know she reads everything I write. Especially the ones I write about attraction. She's the only one that gave me hope. Hope that monogomy might work. I would drop everygirl in the world for her. I did. I did it in hopes she would do the same. But that was just a fools hope. False Hope. I don't want to be "the other guy." But I have to. I suck it up everytime I talk to her because I don't want her to get scarred and run away again. I know I can take more because fear of loss or even of anything doesn't phase me anymore. I wish she could do the same. But she can't. She won't. She doesn't want to. And that's why I don't believe in monogomy anymore. The funny thing is. If she left him, it would taint my belief in monogomy. Because we would start a relationship on something other then what I want. Something I'm trying to avoid. I told my friends about her cause i'm falling for her. Hard. As hard as the concrete I stand on when I think about her. As hard as the way my heart turns cold from rejection. I thought I loved her. But who am I to know what love is? Who am I to judge what love is? Have I ever been in love? I'd like to believe I was once. But that would be a bias opinon only because it's something I WANT to believe in. Not something that's truly true. So I write. I write about her. I live about her. I do it for her. Why? Because of the hope I don't want to believe that's false.

Attraction is Not a Choice : The Rules of Attraction xiii

[Sunday, January 27, 2008

Current mood: accomplished
Category: Romance and Relationships]

Here's something most people might not think about.
Attraction is not a choice.

What I mean by that is: You may be single/ taken/ married/ divorced/ engaged and it still doesn't matter because you'll always have feelings for the people you find attractive.

I see it all the time!
I saw it last night. I saw it last week. I saw it in September.
Attraction just isn't a choice.
But there is one thing we can control.
And that's our actions; well... at least the conscious ones.

I can read your body launguage, which in turn tells me the thoughts you keep secret.
Which is partly why I believe there are no such thing as psychics, only good body launguage readers.

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you're right... you can't control who you're attracted too..

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I wish Monogomy worked: The Rules of Attraction xii

Monday, January 21, 2008

Current mood: adventurous Category: Romance and Relationships Poligamy vs Monogomy Our purpose in life is to survive and to replicate. Now right there is the problem with the purpose. You have 2. And you have 2 genders of man. At least 2 basics. 1 gender lives more to survive. While the other lives more to replicate. Can you guess which is which? Well it's women who want to survive more then replicate. And men want to replicate more then survive. If you haven't guessed yet, survive means money and replicate means sex. So this explains why guys want sex when girls want money. Now you have the problem of the genders infront of you. If Monogomy were to work, then it's up to the man to make it work. Because man is the problem. At least when it comes to replictaion. Replication meaning he doesn't stick to 1 option, when he can have as many as he wants. Just like the old elemantary school joke: How many times does 1 go into 0? [January 21, 2008] 2:22 AM 2 Comments 1 Kudos Powered by English Albanian Arabic Bulgarian Catalan Chinese Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Estonian Filipino Finnish French Galician German Greek Hebrew Hindi Hungarian Indonesian Italian Japanese Korean Latvian Lithuanian Maltese Norwegian Polish Portuguese Romanian Russian Serbian Slovak Slovenian Spanish Swedish Thai Turkish Ukrainian Vietnamese

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Polygamy vs Monogamy is like male sexuality vs female sexuality.

Men have millions of sperm and can move from partner to partner, which is in their best interests as far as passing along their genes goes. Women get pregnant and are out for 9 months, plus they have to raise the little bastard also- so long-term monogamy and a partner that will help is in their best interest sexually.

But, then you also get the whole alpha-male thing going on too, which I know you know something about, you PUA you. Alpha males are superior and bring more pleasure to women and have "superior" genes. Women that orgasm more hold in that sperm more-- pretty much that means alpha males get them pregnant easier, even if the women are sleeping with other people. So, the alpha male gets more women, and doesn't have to compromise his male-driven-sexuality as much either, and women cling to them because evolutionarily they'd rather have his superior genes if they could, than have their children share the genes of a little bitch. However, whether they get pregnant or not is irrelevant; it's just the processes behind their biology that drives this that's important.

But, yeah, there's a lot more to it, like money and stuff that you mention that adds to this in my opinion. Although I think I can explain that too, I'll keep it short here.

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Dead on Arrival (The song I sang for deaf ears)

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Dead on Arrival (The song I sang for deaf ears) Current mood: high I want to explain why I chose this song.. It's the song I was suppose to sing for her. The one that doesn't want to hear it. But wanted me to sing for her for so long! Dead on Arrival is the name. Dead on arrival is the meaning. Listen to the Lyrics and find the hidden meaning: I'll tell you who it's for without giving it away, This conversation has been dead on arrival because your ears are deaf to something you don't want to hear. This is only side one becuase I only showed you the side of me I wanted you to see. Now flip me over. And discover a whole new me. The side you didn't see. Or maybe even the side you didn't WANT to see. Rivalary? why? Because you have a boyfriend I'm competing with.. It goes so deep because you've been with him a FOURTH of your entire life. (that should give it away) I'm writting you a chorus because this is the song you wantED to hear. Not the song you would like to hear. I know I'm not your favorite record because the songs you've grown to like (double meaning) they never stick at first. Song meaning your 5 yr boyfriend. Not me. It was NEVER me. But I'm writting you this chorus. This is the song you wanted to hear right? You were begging me to sing for you. I never say no to you. Cause I have a obsession of never saying no to you. EVER. This is why it didn't work out between us. Because I wasn't stronger. When I should of said no to you before we kissed! OVER YOU. 10:37 AM Darlene Joanne xo Posted by Darlene Joanne on Tuesday, January 15, 2008 - 5:21 PM

Social Attraction: The Rules of Attraction Part xi

Wednesday, January 02, 2008

Do I really have to be Attracted to someone to talk to them? So I'm at a party at Alex's, Vince, and Jason's house in Clairmont. I have a few drinks, I get a little talky, and I get a little dancey lol. There was a girl there I was a little attracted to. But we never had a good connection. So I felt as if I shouldn't have even bothered with her. Her name was Grace. So I'm talking to one of her friends asking what the deal was with Grace? What kind of person was she? How was her last relationship? Grace was on and off her relationship. She's a little flirty. And for her last relationship it was a long one! ( The deal breaker ) I'm not trying to get with a girl that's comming out of a long relationship. Why? Because it's what's comfortable to them and people in that comfort zone for a long time don't want to leave it. I shouldn't be the one to judge though. I believe a RELATIONSHIP is for COMFORT, but when your thinking about breaking up with a long term relationship just remember this: If he/she is more STRESS then CONFORT then learn to let go. Well back to me asking about Grace to her friend Michelle. I'm talking back and forth to Michelle and Grace and Grace all of the sudden says, "she's engaged." I was like, "so? what is that suppose to me?" I got a little pissed and asked Michelle for her number to put it in Grace's face. I wasn't trying to hit on her FRIEND! I was just looking for some good conversation! Even though she was kind of cute. In Grace's defense I did dance with Michelle a lot even though I was dancing with a lot of other girls! It doesn't mean as much as she thunk it to be... It was just 2 or 3 people having fun dancing together. I danced with my friend Liz! Doesn't mean I l'm attracted to her. I just wanted her to have fun! Which brings me to Nicole Sibet, this physchic I met at the bar me and Mark went to. My battery is about to die so I'll write about her some other time. 3:33 PM 1 Comments 1 Kudos 2 Kudos 1 Kudos 0 Kudos Powered by English Albanian Arabic Bulgarian Catalan Chinese Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Estonian Filipino Finnish French Galician German Greek Hebrew Hindi Hungarian Indonesian Italian Japanese Korean Latvian Lithuanian Maltese Norwegian Polish Portuguese Romanian Russian Serbian Slovak Slovenian Spanish Swedish Thai Turkish Ukrainian Vietnamese

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You like GRACE? hahaha! or liked, I should say. phew. Yeah. I talk to a lot of guys, more than girls even. It's easier for me because I don't feel I have a lot in common with most girls, and my sense of humor seems to fit in better with guys. Yet, it seems like every time I strike up a conversation with one, everyone around me (including the guy) assumes I am hitting on him or I'm attracted to him. That is sooo not the case. It's one of my pet peeves. Posted by Nicoley on Sunday, January 06, 2008 - 12:12 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User]

Falling Heart: The Rules of Attraction Part ix + x

[This is the first blog I ever wrote on the girl I would eventually fall in love with 2 years ago...
This blog references: 25 Things I Would Never Take Back and is a
prelude to Mar 10 Giving into the Darkerside of the Game: The Rules of Attraction LXX: fb.com/note.php?note_id=56211723026&id=562001482&index=39]

Thursday, November 08, 2007

Falling Heart The Rules of Attraction Part IV Edit I fell for someone. She knows who she is... She fell for me too. I’m falling so hard for her that I even stopped talking to the other girls just so I can concentrate on her. I also don’t want to risk hurting her by seeing the others. I’m at my subject best when I’m with her. I get so happy my heart feels like bursting. I just want to protect her from anything that might hurt her. I would never hurt her or do anything to hurt her. I had this talk with one of my friends, he told me a story about how ppl have these "moments." These "moments" consist of something I can’t say because I know she might be reading this. She does the cutest things. I remember the first time we kissed like it was yesterday. I held her hand for the first time. We relaxed on the couch watching a movie. She cuddled up to me. She kissed me on the cheek and I turned to her and kissed her on the lips (they were so soft). I’ve never felt such a kiss that was so natural and without any kind of akwardness. Overall, It just felt right. This is going to work... I want to tell her, but I don’t want to risk her feeling akward. If she were to read this, I guess I’d be in a predicament, but I wouldn’t care cause then at least I’ll know she knows. This is going to work.... I just know it. Do you feel the same way? [Edit 2: April 8, 2008] _______________________________________________ Monday, November 12, 2007 Well.... I thought I was putting my coat up n calling it quits... but I guess I'm not. I'm back and now known as Jimmy Black (My porn star name) Teamed up with Johnny Deep!!! lol. I didn't want to get back in the game... I wanted to take a break from it all... You know sit down relax with the one girl that really matterED to me... I told everyone the story about her... Everyone knows she'll be running to me... It's not a matter "if" she will... I already know it. The probablem is... am I strong enough to reject her? I liked her a lot and she broke my heart. So when it comes to decision time... it'll be fun to say, "***, I'm sorry."

My Girlfriend(s) The Rules of Attraction Part viii

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

I have a girlfriend. Sort of. Okay I'm Dating around.
Hmm... What do I mean? Alright I'll be completely honest. The reason I don't have a girlfriend is because I REALLY don't want one. Because if I had one, I'd have to drop the other girls I'm attracted to.
Let's see...
There's a girl I'm talking to (girl Ay).
A girl I'm going on a date with (girl Da)."
A girl I'm dating (girl As).
A girl that won't stop calling me (girl Ka).
A stalker (girl Ke).
A girl that just wants to fcuk me (girl Z).
A girl I dated and haven't sent signals to (girl Gr).
A girl that wants to be more then friends (girl Li).
and the other girls just aren't significant enough to mention.
Now if your one of these girls, probably not, then you could probably figure out which one you are! lol
3 of them are chinese 1 of them half. I guess I just have a thing for chinese girls again... There so cute, nice, and selfless.

Getting Lucky The Rules of Attraction vii

Thursday, October 18, 2007

I’ve been having the wierdest luck with the ladies....I don’t know if I’ve been lucky (for the past couple months) or if I finally found out what women want...
I’ve been experimenting latley, reading books on Body Launguage, Social Dynamics, and the Venusian Arts. I’ve learned so much and even when I finished my Body Launguage I tested some of my TH3ORies and it worked like a charm! The following week I meet someone and I got a BOOTY CALL! holy shizzzit! haha
It’s been other things too... I changed my TH3ORY on girls liking jerks to girls into girls not liking nice guys. The reason being that nice guys seem so..... false. Ironically girls don’t trust nice guys because it seems like their being nice "for a reason."
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Don’t YOU EVER respect Women Part II: The Rules of Attraction vi

Monday, June 23, 2008 at 5:11pm

So here's part II...When the night was over I was discussing to the others how the night went. Phil explains that he couldn't hold the girl we danced with for that long. Then he asks me how he should of danced with her.I told him to start off with your hands on her hips and you escalate from there. You continue to escalate unless she stops you. If she doesn't stop you then she's not objecting. Women like aggressive men and would prefer the guy to make the first move.Filled with self-doubt Phil says, "I guess I just respect woment too much..."I immediately yell, "DON'T YOU EVER RESPECT WOMEN!!!" hehe... everyone in the room couldn't stop laughing.


Why is everyone moving slower then me? oh wait... that's just me haha
What I forgot to tell him was that it was hard to explain how to dance without the lady present. The best dancing was about being responsive to your partner. Following is just as important as leading. I dance just as sexual as my partner is being towards me. I like returning the favor. =PKissing is the same way. Kissing is about reacting to the girl kissing you. I change the tempo of my tongue the same way I change the power of handshake in order to adjust to whomever I'm in contact with.


Almost drunk... haha
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Don't You Ever Respect Women: The Rules of Attraction v

Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:13am

"I think I respect women too much"... Story Part 1

It all started when we were at Vegas..... again.... Instead of going to club Tryst like last time we went to club TAO!!! bayybee baybay!It was awesome! The scenery was good! The drapes and the 3 separate rooms were fantastic. And the girl to guy ratio was one of kind! Nobody could get in without bringing girls.People who didn't have any girls got bumped to the back of the line. Before we can get kicked I went up to these 2 girls and told them I was in the front of the line and they can get in quicker if they rolled with us. They weren't really keen about cutting. In a couple of minutes I convinced them to accompany us, but before we could join up with the others, the Tao staff kicked the others out of line. So then me and Kuya Phil found a group of 3 girls and asked them to join us in the front of the line and they agreed. wohoo! yaay for asian girls!!!

We waited for the dance floor to fill before we started dancing. I tell the guys to come jump in when I ask a group of girls if they want to dance. I pick the freakest girl in the group and start dancing with her and signal to the guys to jump in. Multiply that a couple of times and that's what happened throughout the night.There were these girls I met that night that I'll never forget. We met without saying a word. First a dance. Then a conversation. And then a Jojo sandwich! haha. It was great... we were vibing and dancing and having a great time.I see Kuya Phil walking around and I shout, "Hey Kuya Phil!" Phil comes over, I make introductions, and then I signal him to dance behind one of the girls. We dance for a bit and then I left to go mingle with the the other girls. I encountered more girls and I ran into this one viet girl with an interesting name.... Psyphon. She had nice hair. I danced with her and her friend Abby and I drank their champaign. She later asked if I wanted to join her outside and so started the rigorous journey to find the exit.[Blogged October 2, 2007]

Seduction:Infatuation as Ramance:Love : TROA iv

Sunday, June 03, 2007
Current mood: creative Category: Religion and Philosophy

Simply Irresistible (movie)

Good screen play. Very good actor (same actor in Boon dock Saints). It made me think about my past or maybe even still present hopeless romantic life...

Romance. It started when I was a kid. I remember at least most of my life my dad was in the Navy or in other words gone. So my mom taught me about life. She taught me how to socialize. Reacting with my mom made me find out how women should be treated.

Love. Movies then showed me and other ppl how romance is. How the real world is never like. You don’t learn this only from experience (which some guys never learn) you learn this from the people that get women: players or better yet pick up artists. Which leads to my next point.

Seduction (Lust) Lust- intense sexual desire or appetite [As said by dictionary.com]. Women have a hard time differentiating what they want and what they need. I have a friend that says one thing when I really know she wants the other. Another friend, a closer friend, that keeps changing his damn mind about what he wants.The truth is this…. If women don’t know what they want, how are men suppose to figure it out? I think it’ll just take time to figure out but it doesn’t ignore the difficulty imposed in something that might just be more simplistic then I think...:
Infatuation. Something I guarantee you will not know unless you’ve experienced both of love and of infatuation. Too many ppl are confused with the 2. They feel the same… at least to the inexperienced. 2 completely different things. Love is trust (100%). Infatuation leaves u with jealousy. It’s not normal to feel jealous because your friends or your family get jealous. Don’t believe that fucking bullshit. But it is normal to feel jealous in the beginning of a relationship… it just means your not in love yet…nobody falls in love that quickly.
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She loves me... She loves me not? : TROA iii

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

I feel kind of akward writting this because I’m not 100% sure about if this is true. But then again, when you think someone likes you, you tend to never really know if it’s true or not, which in turn makes the "game" fun (not knowing what’s going to happen).
I’m getting wierd vibes from one of my "friends." A girl. I’ve gotten a couple Indicators Of Intrest or what I like to call "IOI"s. She sweet. I’ve been sweet to her. We would make a great couple. But what’s with the timming? Why now? Why not before? When I used to really like her?
It’s cause girls don’t respect guys that like them first. It’s hard to get a girl when you like her. It’s so ironic but I’ve learned the one thing that turns off girls instantly is when you bluntly show you like them. I fucking hate it! Average Frustrated Chumps or AFC’s have the most common mistake of showing a girl they like them. The game is about push and pull. I see AFC’s all the time doing stupid average things way too much!
Okay so push and pull. What does that mean? You can say pushing is being agressive and pulling is "seducing" or letting the girl be agressive. One of my friends let’s just call him SC pushes too much. He’s good at pushing.... but he drives away a lot of girls he could have. He’s the pro at pushing. No other guy is agressive just the right amount like he is.
Well that’s enough side tracking...
This girl. She is cute, sweet... maybe even perfect in my eyes. but I can’t have a girlfriend now. I still want to experience being single and seductive. Anyways she’s my friend for crying out loud! I thought I figured that out. I agreed to myself to choose girls as either friends or lovers and never convert but now that she’s throwing me IOI’s it’s CONFUSING the fuck out of me. I don’t know what to do... she’s going to tell me she likes me soon... I know it...
I’m scarred and excited at the same time.
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Friday, June 01, 2007
Drunken Posting
So. I'm drunk. I gotta learn. Don't misss opportunities. Don't regret. I'm not sober so I'm going to have rambilings. kit's only 11. Let's go to a party okay?
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March 14, 2009

The previous blogs were about my closest girl friend Liz. I started thinking she liked me because of how comfortable she was around me and the fact that she couldn't tell me who she liked. The second blog was the chain reaction of when her and my best guy friend Mark hooked up the night I was falling for her.

The Game: The Rules of Attraction i

Thursday, December 08, 2005
So... I got out of my I-quit-everything phase. Lucky I even quit smoking for 6-8 days. I needed that. I can work better and i'm happier now. I've never been able to think so clearly without having my emotions clog my thoughts. I've learned so much now.About "the Game." Everything in life is a game. If you don't know it's a game, then you'll never figure out how to play. Your at a disadvantage. Discover what I'm talking about and hopfully you'll start learning how to play.
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Meet Jo Black: The Rules of Attraction ii

Current mood: recumbent

Why did they call me Jo Black? To make a long story short it's what happened in Vegas.

Now to make a short story long:
It started about a week and a half ago when I told Mark I'd go with him to Vegas. On Friday we scouted the clubs. That night Marvin and Mark had no trouble meeting girls and I couldn't take my mind off of it the night afterwards. Mark and Marvin said I needed to "step it up tomorrow." They also told me that before our Vegas trip all "the guys" (our friends in San Diego) thought that out of the three of us, I would need to be winged the most during the trip. I thought to myself, "wow, these guys think I'm horrible at meeting women."

Then I said "Fuck it it's Vegas" nobody knows me here. I'm someone different. So I became who I wanted to be that night on Saturday.
I started off by making friends with everyone around us in the line. Partly cause I wanted to know which one of them was single
I used a simple and generic opener that consisted of asking where the nearest bar was.

As soon as we got into club Tryst (a 4 hour wait in line) I immediately had friends who urged me to dance with their new found Caucasian friend! (haha) and that's only how it began! I was asking one girl after the other. In the end I met a girl from Haiti (I'm still not completely sure where it is) she said something about it being in or around Jamaica... I dunno.

We danced the rest of the night away to songs that contained the lyrics shawtay, let me buy u a drank, and bartender. She showed me some moves and even taught me a couple about slowing the grinding down
OoOoh my...
Never danced with any one that could keep up with me and non the less better then me! She told me I danced very good and repeatedly told me that how I dance is "how I should have sex with a black girl." She repeated saying that about every other song (about 6 times)
Come to think of it I think she was trying to say something lol... but I told the guys I wouldn't do the deed unless there was at least two out of the three of us that was going to. (Never leave a man down)
oh well there's always next time... (August 9, 10, and 11)

[Blogged July 23, 2007]


RED RuFiO

Couldn't Been written any Better!!! When can I chill wit 'JO BLACK'... It is WHAT it is...Ready?? 8/9-11

Posted by RED RuFiO on Jul 23, 2007 9:01 PM