Thursday, October 18, 2007
I’ve been having the wierdest luck with the ladies....I don’t know if I’ve been lucky (for the past couple months) or if I finally found out what women want...
I’ve been experimenting latley, reading books on Body Launguage, Social Dynamics, and the Venusian Arts. I’ve learned so much and even when I finished my Body Launguage I tested some of my TH3ORies and it worked like a charm! The following week I meet someone and I got a BOOTY CALL! holy shizzzit! haha
It’s been other things too... I changed my TH3ORY on girls liking jerks to girls into girls not liking nice guys. The reason being that nice guys seem so..... false. Ironically girls don’t trust nice guys because it seems like their being nice "for a reason."
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Saturday, March 14, 2009
Don’t YOU EVER respect Women Part II: The Rules of Attraction vi
Monday, June 23, 2008 at 5:11pm
So here's part II...When the night was over I was discussing to the others how the night went. Phil explains that he couldn't hold the girl we danced with for that long. Then he asks me how he should of danced with her.I told him to start off with your hands on her hips and you escalate from there. You continue to escalate unless she stops you. If she doesn't stop you then she's not objecting. Women like aggressive men and would prefer the guy to make the first move.Filled with self-doubt Phil says, "I guess I just respect woment too much..."I immediately yell, "DON'T YOU EVER RESPECT WOMEN!!!" hehe... everyone in the room couldn't stop laughing.
Why is everyone moving slower then me? oh wait... that's just me haha
What I forgot to tell him was that it was hard to explain how to dance without the lady present. The best dancing was about being responsive to your partner. Following is just as important as leading. I dance just as sexual as my partner is being towards me. I like returning the favor. =PKissing is the same way. Kissing is about reacting to the girl kissing you. I change the tempo of my tongue the same way I change the power of handshake in order to adjust to whomever I'm in contact with.
Almost drunk... haha
[Created October 2, 2007]
So here's part II...When the night was over I was discussing to the others how the night went. Phil explains that he couldn't hold the girl we danced with for that long. Then he asks me how he should of danced with her.I told him to start off with your hands on her hips and you escalate from there. You continue to escalate unless she stops you. If she doesn't stop you then she's not objecting. Women like aggressive men and would prefer the guy to make the first move.Filled with self-doubt Phil says, "I guess I just respect woment too much..."I immediately yell, "DON'T YOU EVER RESPECT WOMEN!!!" hehe... everyone in the room couldn't stop laughing.
Why is everyone moving slower then me? oh wait... that's just me haha
What I forgot to tell him was that it was hard to explain how to dance without the lady present. The best dancing was about being responsive to your partner. Following is just as important as leading. I dance just as sexual as my partner is being towards me. I like returning the favor. =PKissing is the same way. Kissing is about reacting to the girl kissing you. I change the tempo of my tongue the same way I change the power of handshake in order to adjust to whomever I'm in contact with.
Almost drunk... haha
[Created October 2, 2007]
Don't You Ever Respect Women: The Rules of Attraction v
Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:13am
"I think I respect women too much"... Story Part 1
It all started when we were at Vegas..... again.... Instead of going to club Tryst like last time we went to club TAO!!! bayybee baybay!It was awesome! The scenery was good! The drapes and the 3 separate rooms were fantastic. And the girl to guy ratio was one of kind! Nobody could get in without bringing girls.People who didn't have any girls got bumped to the back of the line. Before we can get kicked I went up to these 2 girls and told them I was in the front of the line and they can get in quicker if they rolled with us. They weren't really keen about cutting. In a couple of minutes I convinced them to accompany us, but before we could join up with the others, the Tao staff kicked the others out of line. So then me and Kuya Phil found a group of 3 girls and asked them to join us in the front of the line and they agreed. wohoo! yaay for asian girls!!!
We waited for the dance floor to fill before we started dancing. I tell the guys to come jump in when I ask a group of girls if they want to dance. I pick the freakest girl in the group and start dancing with her and signal to the guys to jump in. Multiply that a couple of times and that's what happened throughout the night.There were these girls I met that night that I'll never forget. We met without saying a word. First a dance. Then a conversation. And then a Jojo sandwich! haha. It was great... we were vibing and dancing and having a great time.I see Kuya Phil walking around and I shout, "Hey Kuya Phil!" Phil comes over, I make introductions, and then I signal him to dance behind one of the girls. We dance for a bit and then I left to go mingle with the the other girls. I encountered more girls and I ran into this one viet girl with an interesting name.... Psyphon. She had nice hair. I danced with her and her friend Abby and I drank their champaign. She later asked if I wanted to join her outside and so started the rigorous journey to find the exit.[Blogged October 2, 2007]
"I think I respect women too much"... Story Part 1
It all started when we were at Vegas..... again.... Instead of going to club Tryst like last time we went to club TAO!!! bayybee baybay!It was awesome! The scenery was good! The drapes and the 3 separate rooms were fantastic. And the girl to guy ratio was one of kind! Nobody could get in without bringing girls.People who didn't have any girls got bumped to the back of the line. Before we can get kicked I went up to these 2 girls and told them I was in the front of the line and they can get in quicker if they rolled with us. They weren't really keen about cutting. In a couple of minutes I convinced them to accompany us, but before we could join up with the others, the Tao staff kicked the others out of line. So then me and Kuya Phil found a group of 3 girls and asked them to join us in the front of the line and they agreed. wohoo! yaay for asian girls!!!
We waited for the dance floor to fill before we started dancing. I tell the guys to come jump in when I ask a group of girls if they want to dance. I pick the freakest girl in the group and start dancing with her and signal to the guys to jump in. Multiply that a couple of times and that's what happened throughout the night.There were these girls I met that night that I'll never forget. We met without saying a word. First a dance. Then a conversation. And then a Jojo sandwich! haha. It was great... we were vibing and dancing and having a great time.I see Kuya Phil walking around and I shout, "Hey Kuya Phil!" Phil comes over, I make introductions, and then I signal him to dance behind one of the girls. We dance for a bit and then I left to go mingle with the the other girls. I encountered more girls and I ran into this one viet girl with an interesting name.... Psyphon. She had nice hair. I danced with her and her friend Abby and I drank their champaign. She later asked if I wanted to join her outside and so started the rigorous journey to find the exit.[Blogged October 2, 2007]
Seduction:Infatuation as Ramance:Love : TROA iv
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Current mood: creative Category: Religion and Philosophy
Simply Irresistible (movie)
Good screen play. Very good actor (same actor in Boon dock Saints). It made me think about my past or maybe even still present hopeless romantic life...
Romance. It started when I was a kid. I remember at least most of my life my dad was in the Navy or in other words gone. So my mom taught me about life. She taught me how to socialize. Reacting with my mom made me find out how women should be treated.
Love. Movies then showed me and other ppl how romance is. How the real world is never like. You don’t learn this only from experience (which some guys never learn) you learn this from the people that get women: players or better yet pick up artists. Which leads to my next point.
Seduction (Lust) Lust- intense sexual desire or appetite [As said by dictionary.com]. Women have a hard time differentiating what they want and what they need. I have a friend that says one thing when I really know she wants the other. Another friend, a closer friend, that keeps changing his damn mind about what he wants.The truth is this…. If women don’t know what they want, how are men suppose to figure it out? I think it’ll just take time to figure out but it doesn’t ignore the difficulty imposed in something that might just be more simplistic then I think...:
Infatuation. Something I guarantee you will not know unless you’ve experienced both of love and of infatuation. Too many ppl are confused with the 2. They feel the same… at least to the inexperienced. 2 completely different things. Love is trust (100%). Infatuation leaves u with jealousy. It’s not normal to feel jealous because your friends or your family get jealous. Don’t believe that fucking bullshit. But it is normal to feel jealous in the beginning of a relationship… it just means your not in love yet…nobody falls in love that quickly.
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Current mood: creative Category: Religion and Philosophy
Simply Irresistible (movie)
Good screen play. Very good actor (same actor in Boon dock Saints). It made me think about my past or maybe even still present hopeless romantic life...
Romance. It started when I was a kid. I remember at least most of my life my dad was in the Navy or in other words gone. So my mom taught me about life. She taught me how to socialize. Reacting with my mom made me find out how women should be treated.
Love. Movies then showed me and other ppl how romance is. How the real world is never like. You don’t learn this only from experience (which some guys never learn) you learn this from the people that get women: players or better yet pick up artists. Which leads to my next point.
Seduction (Lust) Lust- intense sexual desire or appetite [As said by dictionary.com]. Women have a hard time differentiating what they want and what they need. I have a friend that says one thing when I really know she wants the other. Another friend, a closer friend, that keeps changing his damn mind about what he wants.The truth is this…. If women don’t know what they want, how are men suppose to figure it out? I think it’ll just take time to figure out but it doesn’t ignore the difficulty imposed in something that might just be more simplistic then I think...:
Infatuation. Something I guarantee you will not know unless you’ve experienced both of love and of infatuation. Too many ppl are confused with the 2. They feel the same… at least to the inexperienced. 2 completely different things. Love is trust (100%). Infatuation leaves u with jealousy. It’s not normal to feel jealous because your friends or your family get jealous. Don’t believe that fucking bullshit. But it is normal to feel jealous in the beginning of a relationship… it just means your not in love yet…nobody falls in love that quickly.
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She loves me... She loves me not? : TROA iii
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
I feel kind of akward writting this because I’m not 100% sure about if this is true. But then again, when you think someone likes you, you tend to never really know if it’s true or not, which in turn makes the "game" fun (not knowing what’s going to happen).
I’m getting wierd vibes from one of my "friends." A girl. I’ve gotten a couple Indicators Of Intrest or what I like to call "IOI"s. She sweet. I’ve been sweet to her. We would make a great couple. But what’s with the timming? Why now? Why not before? When I used to really like her?
It’s cause girls don’t respect guys that like them first. It’s hard to get a girl when you like her. It’s so ironic but I’ve learned the one thing that turns off girls instantly is when you bluntly show you like them. I fucking hate it! Average Frustrated Chumps or AFC’s have the most common mistake of showing a girl they like them. The game is about push and pull. I see AFC’s all the time doing stupid average things way too much!
Okay so push and pull. What does that mean? You can say pushing is being agressive and pulling is "seducing" or letting the girl be agressive. One of my friends let’s just call him SC pushes too much. He’s good at pushing.... but he drives away a lot of girls he could have. He’s the pro at pushing. No other guy is agressive just the right amount like he is.
Well that’s enough side tracking...
This girl. She is cute, sweet... maybe even perfect in my eyes. but I can’t have a girlfriend now. I still want to experience being single and seductive. Anyways she’s my friend for crying out loud! I thought I figured that out. I agreed to myself to choose girls as either friends or lovers and never convert but now that she’s throwing me IOI’s it’s CONFUSING the fuck out of me. I don’t know what to do... she’s going to tell me she likes me soon... I know it...
I’m scarred and excited at the same time.
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Friday, June 01, 2007
Drunken Posting
So. I'm drunk. I gotta learn. Don't misss opportunities. Don't regret. I'm not sober so I'm going to have rambilings. kit's only 11. Let's go to a party okay?
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March 14, 2009
The previous blogs were about my closest girl friend Liz. I started thinking she liked me because of how comfortable she was around me and the fact that she couldn't tell me who she liked. The second blog was the chain reaction of when her and my best guy friend Mark hooked up the night I was falling for her.
I feel kind of akward writting this because I’m not 100% sure about if this is true. But then again, when you think someone likes you, you tend to never really know if it’s true or not, which in turn makes the "game" fun (not knowing what’s going to happen).
I’m getting wierd vibes from one of my "friends." A girl. I’ve gotten a couple Indicators Of Intrest or what I like to call "IOI"s. She sweet. I’ve been sweet to her. We would make a great couple. But what’s with the timming? Why now? Why not before? When I used to really like her?
It’s cause girls don’t respect guys that like them first. It’s hard to get a girl when you like her. It’s so ironic but I’ve learned the one thing that turns off girls instantly is when you bluntly show you like them. I fucking hate it! Average Frustrated Chumps or AFC’s have the most common mistake of showing a girl they like them. The game is about push and pull. I see AFC’s all the time doing stupid average things way too much!
Okay so push and pull. What does that mean? You can say pushing is being agressive and pulling is "seducing" or letting the girl be agressive. One of my friends let’s just call him SC pushes too much. He’s good at pushing.... but he drives away a lot of girls he could have. He’s the pro at pushing. No other guy is agressive just the right amount like he is.
Well that’s enough side tracking...
This girl. She is cute, sweet... maybe even perfect in my eyes. but I can’t have a girlfriend now. I still want to experience being single and seductive. Anyways she’s my friend for crying out loud! I thought I figured that out. I agreed to myself to choose girls as either friends or lovers and never convert but now that she’s throwing me IOI’s it’s CONFUSING the fuck out of me. I don’t know what to do... she’s going to tell me she likes me soon... I know it...
I’m scarred and excited at the same time.
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Friday, June 01, 2007
Drunken Posting
So. I'm drunk. I gotta learn. Don't misss opportunities. Don't regret. I'm not sober so I'm going to have rambilings. kit's only 11. Let's go to a party okay?
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March 14, 2009
The previous blogs were about my closest girl friend Liz. I started thinking she liked me because of how comfortable she was around me and the fact that she couldn't tell me who she liked. The second blog was the chain reaction of when her and my best guy friend Mark hooked up the night I was falling for her.
Friday, March 13, 2009
The Game: The Rules of Attraction i
Thursday, December 08, 2005
So... I got out of my I-quit-everything phase. Lucky I even quit smoking for 6-8 days. I needed that. I can work better and i'm happier now. I've never been able to think so clearly without having my emotions clog my thoughts. I've learned so much now.About "the Game." Everything in life is a game. If you don't know it's a game, then you'll never figure out how to play. Your at a disadvantage. Discover what I'm talking about and hopfully you'll start learning how to play.
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So... I got out of my I-quit-everything phase. Lucky I even quit smoking for 6-8 days. I needed that. I can work better and i'm happier now. I've never been able to think so clearly without having my emotions clog my thoughts. I've learned so much now.About "the Game." Everything in life is a game. If you don't know it's a game, then you'll never figure out how to play. Your at a disadvantage. Discover what I'm talking about and hopfully you'll start learning how to play.
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Thursday, March 12, 2009
Meet Jo Black: The Rules of Attraction ii
Current mood: recumbent
Why did they call me Jo Black? To make a long story short it's what happened in Vegas.
Now to make a short story long:
It started about a week and a half ago when I told Mark I'd go with him to Vegas. On Friday we scouted the clubs. That night Marvin and Mark had no trouble meeting girls and I couldn't take my mind off of it the night afterwards. Mark and Marvin said I needed to "step it up tomorrow." They also told me that before our Vegas trip all "the guys" (our friends in San Diego) thought that out of the three of us, I would need to be winged the most during the trip. I thought to myself, "wow, these guys think I'm horrible at meeting women."
Then I said "Fuck it it's Vegas" nobody knows me here. I'm someone different. So I became who I wanted to be that night on Saturday.
I started off by making friends with everyone around us in the line. Partly cause I wanted to know which one of them was single
I used a simple and generic opener that consisted of asking where the nearest bar was.
As soon as we got into club Tryst (a 4 hour wait in line) I immediately had friends who urged me to dance with their new found Caucasian friend! (haha) and that's only how it began! I was asking one girl after the other. In the end I met a girl from Haiti (I'm still not completely sure where it is) she said something about it being in or around Jamaica... I dunno.
We danced the rest of the night away to songs that contained the lyrics shawtay, let me buy u a drank, and bartender. She showed me some moves and even taught me a couple about slowing the grinding down
OoOoh my...
Never danced with any one that could keep up with me and non the less better then me! She told me I danced very good and repeatedly told me that how I dance is "how I should have sex with a black girl." She repeated saying that about every other song (about 6 times)
Come to think of it I think she was trying to say something lol... but I told the guys I wouldn't do the deed unless there was at least two out of the three of us that was going to. (Never leave a man down)
oh well there's always next time... (August 9, 10, and 11)
[Blogged July 23, 2007]
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Couldn't Been written any Better!!! When can I chill wit 'JO BLACK'... It is WHAT it is...Ready?? 8/9-11
Posted by RED RuFiO on Jul 23, 2007 9:01 PM
Why did they call me Jo Black? To make a long story short it's what happened in Vegas.
Now to make a short story long:
It started about a week and a half ago when I told Mark I'd go with him to Vegas. On Friday we scouted the clubs. That night Marvin and Mark had no trouble meeting girls and I couldn't take my mind off of it the night afterwards. Mark and Marvin said I needed to "step it up tomorrow." They also told me that before our Vegas trip all "the guys" (our friends in San Diego) thought that out of the three of us, I would need to be winged the most during the trip. I thought to myself, "wow, these guys think I'm horrible at meeting women."
Then I said "Fuck it it's Vegas" nobody knows me here. I'm someone different. So I became who I wanted to be that night on Saturday.
I started off by making friends with everyone around us in the line. Partly cause I wanted to know which one of them was single
I used a simple and generic opener that consisted of asking where the nearest bar was.
As soon as we got into club Tryst (a 4 hour wait in line) I immediately had friends who urged me to dance with their new found Caucasian friend! (haha) and that's only how it began! I was asking one girl after the other. In the end I met a girl from Haiti (I'm still not completely sure where it is) she said something about it being in or around Jamaica... I dunno.
We danced the rest of the night away to songs that contained the lyrics shawtay, let me buy u a drank, and bartender. She showed me some moves and even taught me a couple about slowing the grinding down
OoOoh my...
Never danced with any one that could keep up with me and non the less better then me! She told me I danced very good and repeatedly told me that how I dance is "how I should have sex with a black girl." She repeated saying that about every other song (about 6 times)
Come to think of it I think she was trying to say something lol... but I told the guys I wouldn't do the deed unless there was at least two out of the three of us that was going to. (Never leave a man down)
oh well there's always next time... (August 9, 10, and 11)
[Blogged July 23, 2007]
RED RuFiO
Couldn't Been written any Better!!! When can I chill wit 'JO BLACK'... It is WHAT it is...Ready?? 8/9-11
Posted by RED RuFiO on Jul 23, 2007 9:01 PM
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