The Three Great Loves: The Rules of Attraction xviii

Saturday, February 09, 2008

Current mood: animated Category: Writing and Poetry Love. There was a poem I once read about Love and Infatuation. I don't remember where I put it but I know I read it sometime in high school which was at least 5 years ago. It said Love was never Jealous. Love was never blind. Love was Trust. Love was Unconditional. Based on those truths, I was on a search for love. The love that's nearly impossible to find. One that's worth the risk of being hurt as many times as it takes to find it. I would drop everything to search for it. I would stop seeing other girls. I would leave my house. I would drop all my matierial possetions for it. I would move out of my house. I would DO what ever the fuck it takes to get it. I found it in someone else last week. My 2nd great love. In a show I used to watch (Sex in the City) the journalist wrote that in life we find 3 great loves. I'm just hoping she wasn't my 3rd yet.

Cock Blockers (CB) : The Rules of Attraction xix

Date: Feb 8, 2008 2:42 PM

From: PUA Edge
Subject: Yo

Body:

Hey Jojo,

It's up to you. Personally, I want to delete him too. On Facebook, Mixi, and Myspace.

But the reality is that I don't wanna deal with him getting butt hurt. I'd rather just have him not know that I don't like him, and just not invite him to chill. He'll get the picture someday.

If I don't invite him to hang out and chill, then he doesn't get to hit on my girls. So for right now it works out, but what sucks is that on facebook I can't write anything personal or anything about hanging out cause he'll know.

There's a lot of other guys that noticed about Rich too, from other organizations. I think smart thing to do is just keep him on myspace, but just don't talk to him or message him anymore. And don't hang out as much or at all if you can. You're still friends with Brian and some of Rich's friends so it's probably best to just not make him an issue.

If he makes you angry enough, then you can call him out in front of everyone and THEN you can delete him on myspace.

Cause the thing I can see happening is you delete Rich he'll just use your old bulletins about deleting "friends" against you.

So if people see you call him out or get mad at what he does, (And people know what he does already from what I know), then people will understand if you delete him.

He doesn't have any real close friends in my group, he just pretends to know us. He might be ok with Naoko, but he pretty much tries too hard I think to be cool with our group.

And Japanese people don't really like his peacocking style with anime.... it's nerdy to them.

I'm not gonna worry about him cause it's not worth it. If he hits on my girls then yeah I'll get pissed and delete him.

For now though he's been "quiet" and I already warned all the guys in my group about him so I'm just gonna lay back and chill.

But yeah man, a lot of people know he's just a wanna be player/pua. Even girls notice it.

Since he's not affecting my game too much yet I don't really care anymore.

I Lied to Every Girl I’ve Met: The Rules of Attraction xvii

Saturday, February 09, 2008

I Lied to Every Girl I’ve Met: The Rules of Attraction XVI Current mood: betrayed Category: Jobs, Work, Careers I lied to Darlene. I lied to Kate. I lied to EVERY girl I've ever met. But if you've previously read my other blog on lying, then you'll know what I mean. I didn't really say the lie. I did it. It was my actions. I would never admit to the girl how much I would like her. I would always seem to run away in hopes that the girls would chase me. I wouldn't give a fuck. This is the only lie I ever told. The only lie I will ever commit. I will continue to lie until "a" girl proves me wrong. The lie I made was that I would never EVER let the girl know how much I liked her. Cause as soon as you do... She'll stop liking you. This is nessassary in order to preserve our species. In order for a male to replicate. In order for love to reciprocate into something more. Something meaningfull. Somehting you can call your wife. The problem was never the lie. It was when I told too much truth... 6:50 AM 1 Comments 1 Kudos

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Alex

Alexander Moen

haha, if you call that a lie. It's as much a lie as you "lying" every time you go down on a girl-- It's all for a greater purpose and future pay-off, my man.

And, actually, many men don't do that lie and our species is doing just fine; many men flat-out tell girls they like them.

...But, many men are suckers and are forced into a "numbers game" of attraction though.

Posted by Alex on Saturday, February 09, 2008 - 6:11 PM