Thursday, March 19, 2009

I wish Monogomy worked: The Rules of Attraction xii

Monday, January 21, 2008

Current mood: adventurous
Category: Romance and Relationships

Poligamy vs Monogomy

Our purpose in life is to survive and to replicate.
Now right there is the problem with the purpose.
You have 2. And you have 2 genders of man. At least 2 basics.
1 gender lives more to survive. While the other lives more to replicate.
Can you guess which is which?

Well it's women who want to survive more then replicate.
And men want to replicate more then survive.
If you haven't guessed yet, survive means money and replicate means sex.
So this explains why guys want sex when girls want money.

Now you have the problem of the genders infront of you.
If Monogomy were to work, then it's up to the man to make it work.
Because man is the problem. At least when it comes to replictaion.
Replication meaning he doesn't stick to 1 option, when he can have as many as he wants.
Just like the old elemantary school joke: How many times does 1 go into 0?

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PUA Xanther
Polygamy vs Monogamy is like male sexuality vs female sexuality.

Men have millions of sperm and can move from partner to partner, which is in their best interests as far as passing along their genes goes. Women get pregnant and are out for 9 months, plus they have to raise the little bastard also- so long-term monogamy and a partner that will help is in their best interest sexually.

But, then you also get the whole alpha-male thing going on too, which I know you know something about, you PUA you. Alpha males are superior and bring more pleasure to women and have "superior" genes. Women that orgasm more hold in that sperm more-- pretty much that means alpha males get them pregnant easier, even if the women are sleeping with other people. So, the alpha male gets more women, and doesn't have to compromise his male-driven-sexuality as much either, and women cling to them because evolutionarily they'd rather have his superior genes if they could, than have their children share the genes of a little bitch. However, whether they get pregnant or not is irrelevant; it's just the processes behind their biology that drives this that's important.

But, yeah, there's a lot more to it, like money and stuff that you mention that adds to this in my opinion. Although I think I can explain that too, I'll keep it short here.
Posted by PUA Xanther on Monday, January 21, 2008 - 2:21 PM

Dead on Arrival (The song I sang for deaf ears)

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Current mood: high
I want to explain why I chose this song..
It's the song I was suppose to sing for her.
The one that doesn't want to hear it.
But wanted me to sing for her for so long!
Dead on Arrival is the name.
Dead on arrival is the meaning.

Listen to the Lyrics and find the hidden meaning:
I'll tell you who it's for without giving it away,
This conversation has been dead on arrival because your ears are deaf to something you don't want to hear.
This is only side one becuase I only showed you the side of me I wanted you to see.
Now flip me over. And discover a whole new me.
The side you didn't see.
Or maybe even the side you didn't WANT to see.

Rivalary? why?
Because you have a boyfriend I'm competing with..
It goes so deep because you've been with him a FOURTH of your entire life. (that should give it away)
I'm writting you a chorus because this is the song you wantED to hear.
Not the song you would like to hear.

I know I'm not your favorite record because the songs you've grown to like (double meaning) they never stick at first. Song meaning your 5 yr boyfriend. Not me.
It was NEVER me.
But I'm writting you this chorus. This is the song you wanted to hear right?
You were begging me to sing for you.

I never say no to you. Cause I have a obsession of never saying no to you. EVER.
This is why it didn't work out between us. Because I wasn't stronger.
When I should of said no to you before we kissed!

OVER YOU.
10:37 AM

Darlene Joanne

xo
Posted by Darlene Joanne on Tuesday, January 15, 2008 - 5:21 PM

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Social Attraction: The Rules of Attraction Part xi

Wednesday, January 02, 2008
Do I really have to be Attracted to someone to talk to them?

So I'm at a party at Alex's, Vince, and Jason's house in Clairmont. I have a few drinks, I get a little talky, and I get a little dancey lol.

There was a girl there I was a little attracted to. But we never had a good connection. So I felt as if I shouldn't have even bothered with her. Her name was Grace.

So I'm talking to one of her friends asking what the deal was with Grace? What kind of person was she? How was her last relationship?
Grace was on and off her relationship. She's a little flirty. And for her last relationship it was a long one! ( The deal breaker )
I'm not trying to get with a girl that's comming out of a long relationship. Why? Because it's what's comfortable to them and people in that comfort zone for a long time don't want to leave it. I shouldn't be the one to judge though.

I believe a RELATIONSHIP is for COMFORT, but when your thinking about breaking up with a long term relationship just remember this: If he/she is more STRESS then CONFORT then learn to let go.

Well back to me asking about Grace to her friend Michelle. I'm talking back and forth to Michelle and Grace and Grace all of the sudden says, "she's engaged." I was like, "so? what is that suppose to me?" I got a little pissed and asked Michelle for her number to put it in Grace's face.
I wasn't trying to hit on her FRIEND!
I was just looking for some good conversation!
Even though she was kind of cute.

In Grace's defense I did dance with Michelle a lot even though I was dancing with a lot of other girls! It doesn't mean as much as she thunk it to be... It was just 2 or 3 people having fun dancing together. I danced with my friend Liz! Doesn't mean I l'm attracted to her. I just wanted her to have fun!

Which brings me to Nicole Sibet, this physchic I met at the bar me and Mark went to. My battery is about to die so I'll write about her some other time.
Nicoley
Nicole Stevens

You like GRACE? hahaha! or liked, I should say. phew.

Yeah. I talk to a lot of guys, more than girls even. It's easier for me because I don't feel I have a lot in common with most girls, and my sense of humor seems to fit in better with guys. Yet, it seems like every time I strike up a conversation with one, everyone around me (including the guy) assumes I am hitting on him or I'm attracted to him. That is sooo not the case. It's one of my pet peeves.
Posted by Nicoley on Sunday, January 06, 2008 - 12:12 PM
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Monday, March 16, 2009

Falling Heart: The Rules of Attraction Part ix + x

[This is the first blog I ever wrote on the girl I would eventually fall in love with 2 years ago...
This blog references: 25 Things I Would Never Take Back and is a
prelude to Mar 10 Giving into the Darkerside of the Game: The Rules of Attraction LXX: fb.com/note.php?note_id=56211723026&id=562001482&index=39]

Thursday, November 08, 2007

I fell for someone. She knows who she is... She fell for me too. I’m falling so hard for her that I even stopped talking to the other girls just so I can concentrate on her. I also don’t want to risk hurting her by seeing the others.

I’m at my subject best when I’m with her. I get so happy my heart feels like bursting. I just want to protect her from anything that might hurt her. I would never hurt her or do anything to hurt her.

I had this talk with one of my friends, he told me a story about how ppl have these "moments." These "moments" consist of something I can’t say because I know she might be reading this. She does the cutest things.

I remember the first time we kissed like it was yesterday. I held her hand for the first time. We relaxed on the couch watching a movie. She cuddled up to me. She kissed me on the cheek and I turned to her and kissed her on the lips (they were so soft). I’ve never felt such a kiss that was so natural and without any kind of akwardness. Overall, It just felt right.

This is going to work... I want to tell her, but I don’t want to risk her feeling akward. If she were to read this, I guess I’d be in a predicament, but I wouldn’t care cause then at least I’ll know she knows.

This is going to work.... I just know it. Do you feel the same way?

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Monday, November 12, 2007

Well.... I thought I was putting my coat up n calling it quits... but I guess I'm not. I'm back and now known as Jimmy Black (My porn star name) Teamed up with Johnny Deep!!! lol. I didn't want to get back in the game... I wanted to take a break from it all...

You know sit down relax with the one girl that really matterED to me...

I told everyone the story about her... Everyone knows she'll be running to me... It's not a matter "if" she will... I already know it. The probablem is... am I strong enough to reject her? I liked her a lot and she broke my heart.

So when it comes to decision time... it'll be fun to say, "***, I'm sorry."



My Girlfriend(s) The Rules of Attraction Part viii

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

I have a girlfriend. Sort of. Okay I'm Dating around.
Hmm... What do I mean? Alright I'll be completely honest. The reason I don't have a girlfriend is because I REALLY don't want one. Because if I had one, I'd have to drop the other girls I'm attracted to.
Let's see...
There's a girl I'm talking to (girl Ay).
A girl I'm going on a date with (girl Da)."
A girl I'm dating (girl As).
A girl that won't stop calling me (girl Ka).
A stalker (girl Ke).
A girl that just wants to fcuk me (girl Z).
A girl I dated and haven't sent signals to (girl Gr).
A girl that wants to be more then friends (girl Li).
and the other girls just aren't significant enough to mention.
Now if your one of these girls, probably not, then you could probably figure out which one you are! lol
3 of them are chinese 1 of them half. I guess I just have a thing for chinese girls again... There so cute, nice, and selfless.