Social Attraction: The Rules of Attraction Part xi

Wednesday, January 02, 2008

Do I really have to be Attracted to someone to talk to them? So I'm at a party at Alex's, Vince, and Jason's house in Clairmont. I have a few drinks, I get a little talky, and I get a little dancey lol. There was a girl there I was a little attracted to. But we never had a good connection. So I felt as if I shouldn't have even bothered with her. Her name was Grace. So I'm talking to one of her friends asking what the deal was with Grace? What kind of person was she? How was her last relationship? Grace was on and off her relationship. She's a little flirty. And for her last relationship it was a long one! ( The deal breaker ) I'm not trying to get with a girl that's comming out of a long relationship. Why? Because it's what's comfortable to them and people in that comfort zone for a long time don't want to leave it. I shouldn't be the one to judge though. I believe a RELATIONSHIP is for COMFORT, but when your thinking about breaking up with a long term relationship just remember this: If he/she is more STRESS then CONFORT then learn to let go. Well back to me asking about Grace to her friend Michelle. I'm talking back and forth to Michelle and Grace and Grace all of the sudden says, "she's engaged." I was like, "so? what is that suppose to me?" I got a little pissed and asked Michelle for her number to put it in Grace's face. I wasn't trying to hit on her FRIEND! I was just looking for some good conversation! Even though she was kind of cute. In Grace's defense I did dance with Michelle a lot even though I was dancing with a lot of other girls! It doesn't mean as much as she thunk it to be... It was just 2 or 3 people having fun dancing together. I danced with my friend Liz! Doesn't mean I l'm attracted to her. I just wanted her to have fun! Which brings me to Nicole Sibet, this physchic I met at the bar me and Mark went to. My battery is about to die so I'll write about her some other time. 3:33 PM 1 Comments 1 Kudos 2 Kudos 1 Kudos 0 Kudos Powered by English Albanian Arabic Bulgarian Catalan Chinese Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Estonian Filipino Finnish French Galician German Greek Hebrew Hindi Hungarian Indonesian Italian Japanese Korean Latvian Lithuanian Maltese Norwegian Polish Portuguese Romanian Russian Serbian Slovak Slovenian Spanish Swedish Thai Turkish Ukrainian Vietnamese

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Nicoley Nicole Stevens

You like GRACE? hahaha! or liked, I should say. phew. Yeah. I talk to a lot of guys, more than girls even. It's easier for me because I don't feel I have a lot in common with most girls, and my sense of humor seems to fit in better with guys. Yet, it seems like every time I strike up a conversation with one, everyone around me (including the guy) assumes I am hitting on him or I'm attracted to him. That is sooo not the case. It's one of my pet peeves. Posted by Nicoley on Sunday, January 06, 2008 - 12:12 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User]